The purpose of love is to attract a partner we can grow with, through the barriers that keep love at bay, to the center of the universe, that exists inside all of us.
Getting past the barriers, those walls that surround our hearts, means hanging around long enough to get a look at what they are.
We must first work to find that inner spirit, then seek to attract someone who will compliment us.
We must stop trying to be good enough for anything, except our creator.
Unfortunately the world judges us; Our creator doesn't.
When we listen to that inner spirit, it's very clear to us that we're more than good enough already.
We learn from our creator that we're absolutely glorious -- in his image, and for his sake.
Eventually, we learn to stop trying so hard.
We no longer try so hard to get a partner because we remember that we're here to glorify the presence of our creator.
There is a difference between getting a partner and attracting a partner.
Getting implies that our hooks work; attracting means that our light is bright and appears like a beacon to one who is meant to see it.
When we try to get a partner, we increase our chances of getting the wrong one.
Yes, we can hook one perhaps, but a hook in our parner is a hook in ourselves.
We either end up neurotically obsessed, or the partner figures out it's a hook and does some casting off.
When we attract love by an intensified connection to the inner spirit, we take responsibility for the energy around us, harmonizing it in such a way that those who come forward -- who we sense are meant to be with us -- connect with us out of similar pure intent.